Comments on: How hard do I push my hesitant child? https://simplehomeschool.net/push-my-hesitant-child/ Never let your schooling interrupt your education. Wed, 11 Feb 2026 16:43:09 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Lynda https://simplehomeschool.net/push-my-hesitant-child/#comment-814291 https://simplehomeschool.net/?p=64430#comment-814291 I agree with every factor that you have pointed out. Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts on this.

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By: Kari Patterson https://simplehomeschool.net/push-my-hesitant-child/#comment-811752 https://simplehomeschool.net/?p=64430#comment-811752 In reply to Wondering.

Hi there! Great question. Well of course I’m not sure if we’re preparing him well for college (ha!) since he hasn’t started yet, but the things that come to mind: 1. Doing a sport (or club, or team of any kind) has been HUGE. It’s been really good for him to have to navigate some real-world experiences while still in a pretty safe environment. 2. Having to manage all his school work on his own. His schedule is actually very college-ish. He takes online classes that meet 1/week “live” and then the rest of the lectures and homework he does on his own time. This helps him have to manage his time and work on his own, which is exactly how it is in college. I’m still here to help him when he’s struggling, but this seems like it’s perfect preparation for a college schedule. 3. Getting a driver’s license and practicing some real-world responsibilities. Running errands, taking siblings places, keeping track of items and managing his time. At least for us, these things have been really helpful. Next year (Jr. year) he’ll start taking AP classes, so we’ll see how that goes! I see that as the next step toward helping him be college ready. I totally agree with you that college isn’t for everyone, but he WANTS to go, so we can happy to push him to do what we think he will be happy he did.

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By: Wondering https://simplehomeschool.net/push-my-hesitant-child/#comment-811716 https://simplehomeschool.net/?p=64430#comment-811716 Hi,
I just found out this year that my teenager has autism (level 1, Asperger’s) and inattentive adhd. He’s also gifted. I can relate to much of what you write about your son. How are you helping prepare him for college?
I’m confident my son can do the academics, maybe at a slightly slower pace. It’s the remembering to do life things that I’m not sure how he’ll handle. Since getting the diagnosis I’ve heard a number of stories of young adults with autism who stopped going to class, or avoided the cafeteria because of all the people and ate out of the vending machines. My husband went to a college well-known for engineering/computer science, and knew several students who didn’t graduate who could fit into this pattern.
We’re open to whatever he’d like to do after high school–it doesn’t need to be college–but you’re the first person who’s written of a similar high-schooler who is “looking forward” to college.
Any thoughts would be appreciated. : )
Thanks!

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