Comments on: What does ‘inspire, not require’ really mean? https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/ Never let your schooling interrupt your education. Wed, 11 Feb 2026 20:05:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Jamie C. Martin https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-780095 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-780095 In reply to Jane Ting.

Hi Jane. You can read that here: https://tjed.org/product/leadership-education-manifesto/

And yes, we have it framed in our dining room, where we homeschool!

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By: Jane Ting https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-779849 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-779849 In reply to Laura Grace Weldon.

I love everything you wrote in this article! Would you mind updating the link to the manifesto? It took me to an error page. Also, do you frame and put it in your homeschool room?

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By: Angela https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-750818 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-750818 In reply to Mary K.

You are doing just fine. I read all the books by these people and attended workshops too. Not impressed. I decide when things happen and that happens when I see readiness skills in them for the next level. I use standard curriculums as a guide. One kid maybe “behind” in math but “on grade level” in reading. It is a beautiful thing to watch a kid progress at their own pace.

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By: laura https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-232172 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-232172 In reply to Sarah Smith.

I know what you mean. I have read some of the Thomas Jefferson Home Companion and it is useful for involving the community and mentoring the classics, now I am reading The Thomas Jefferson Education main book which is about philosophy. The Leadership Education for The phases of Learning is more about what to stock in your house and walks you through the core needs..

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By: Heidi https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-180662 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-180662 Love this post Jamie. I love all your posts about Leadership Education. It is so helpful for so many to hear about how this works for different families.

For those with teens who have developed a “teenager” attitude – give them a copy of Thomas Jefferson Education for Teens (and read it yourself too!). The book is full of inspiration for teens (and adults), calling them to find their mission and what they have to offer the world, and how to get themselves a fantastic education so they are best equipped to fulfill their missions.

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By: loveena https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-111873 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-111873 We love to inspire instead of require too! We are relatively recent to homeschooling ( 18 months) but your words ring so true to my ears! My youngest child who is 3.5 yrs is so independent in her work although she is not yet consistent ( whether colouring or playing with sand or learning her phonics) and I have been amazed to watch that since she has never visited a school…she is more inspired to learn and doesnot view it as a chore 🙂 My oldest (a gifted child) was in school for 2 years and the experience nearly sapped his instinctive love of learning on top of making him emotionally unwell!! (not to say everyone will have a similar experience with schools) .

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By: Jamie Martin https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-111868 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-111868 In reply to Laura Grace Weldon.

Thank you so, so much, Laura. Appreciate the encouragement!

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By: Samantha https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-111851 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-111851 In reply to Candace.

Candace, I was struggling with the same thing as my girls entered the teen years. All the approaches that worked for us went out the window as first the older and then the next developed a slouchy, grumpy, don’t-care-anymore attitude. They didn’t want to go back to school necessarily, although they were open to it, they just didn’t want my control over what they were learning. For awhile, that made me even more controlling. I don’t recommend that unless slammed doors and tearful outbursts are your thing.

Then I dug into material about how teens learn and what inspires them. Here are my recommendations:

Free to Learn by Peter Gray, his premise applies to every age including parents.

The Teenage Liberation Handbook by Grace Llewellyn, really inspiring. Get your kids to read this one!

Free Range Learning by Laura Weldon, the second half of the book is the real goldmine with lots of open-ended ways to learn joyously. Also, check out this article by the same author about successfully homeschooling teens: http://lauragraceweldon.com/2012/05/24/successful-teen-homeschooling-two-vital-factors/

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By: Anna Vaschina https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-111849 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-111849 Very cool 🙂
I haven’t thought of it in that way. Whilst I’m not free to go that way completely it does inspire me to move in that way when things get stuck.

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By: Jenn @ Beautiful Calling https://simplehomeschool.net/inspire-not-require/#comment-111848 http://simplehomeschl.wpengine.com/?p=22610#comment-111848 We share a similar philosophy. My daughter just turned 7 and we are just learning to read – at her pace. I love to read and reading opens up the world. It’s too important to me to rush it or cram it at her!!

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